Friday, March 11, 2016

327. Problems in Trying to Be Like Socrates

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From my reading of Plato's Dialogues I have concluded that to be like Socrates I must be (1) very careful about what I believe, (2) very careful about how I speak, and (3) very careful about how I live. Extraordinary care, rather than a particular belief, or produced speech, or adopted way of life, is the sine qua non. I have the feeling that many people, like me, want to be like Socrates, and that this will gain them the name "philosopher."

My own thought and experience have led me to conclude that meeting the above requirements is not humanly possible. The greater the care anybody takes the greater the difficulties he or she is going to raise. Though my experience is extensive and, I think, deep, my training in philosophy is well behind that of others who appear on this forum. I am interested in knowing whether or not I am right, and if not, where am I going wrong. Also in anything else that might help conceive, state, or solve the problem.

The problem is not meeting the three requirements individually; it's meeting them in combination. I don't see it as a logical or theoretical problem; I see it as a human one, arising in the world. And it is best displayed, I think, through personal narrative, a story of my own attempts to be a good follower of Socrates.

Begin with that care about belief. I was once very careful about my belief in God. I had reviewed the findings of the people I had carefully determined to be the most careful I could find, university professors. Their care forced me to discard every proposition requiring belief in God's existence. I believed that Richard Dawkins' book, The God Delusion, cinched the case. Then I plunged into the world with my belief. I declared it at coffee hour after church. And the world spoke back. "Great Heavens, watch your words," said my wife on the way home. "You are going to hurt a lot of feelings. Nobody will sit next to you if you aren't more careful." I couldn't accuse my wife of carelessness. My extreme care had made me the careless one. And thrown me into painful conflict.

Reflection showed me that I had created the conflict by introducing requirement (3), being careful about how I lived. I had decided that to live the good life I had to join the human race. Living alone in my head or my office was not a good life. But the human race, I saw, lives in tribes and you can't join one without respecting tribal beliefs and speaking tribal words. I had joined the tribe of church-goers.

Belief-wise tribal words are careless words but speech-wise they're just what care requires. Is it possible to get one right without getting the other wrong? Well, in the coffee-hour case, apparently yes. Long-time members of this church, known to me to be non-believers, must get it right regularly. Nobody avoids sitting next to them. They maintain contact with the human race. They show no signs of pain or conflict. I just have to be like them.

What will it take? Tact, sensitivity, rhetorical skill, as my wife may point out. Acquire those and I'll have it right. Learning to take my wife's kind of care will solve my problem. I think I am capable of that.

But have I faced the problem in its entirety? Does my church coffee-hour take me deeply enough into the world? I don't know what I am capable of until I've been fully tested. On then to this, the toughest challenge I think I've faced. (And on with me, I hope, philosophers suspicious of personal narrative. I believe that I can't present the full problem, down in the world, without such narrative. Socrates didn't hesitate and neither will I.)

I am at a contemporary dinner party. I know that I have to take the kind of care my wife took with speech. And I can't give up the kind of care Socrates taught me. I still want to be a philosopher. I see that a more comprehensive kind of care will be required — to get my situation in the world right, to solve my problem, to lead the good life, an examined life — but I haven't learned to exercise that kind of care yet.

All right, at the table, questions of the day. Urgent questions. Is it true that blacks perform poorly in the classroom? Is it true that desire to perform well is not much encouraged by black parents? by fellow blacks in school? Is there a problem with black culture? I, careful as I can be, report as fact the findings of those people that , again, I have carefully determined to be the most careful I can find. So that we all can go on to the big question: What do blacks need to do to get out of the fix they're in? Over the horizon is the question, What can whites do to help? On the way home my wife tells me that my reported facts have hurt a lot of feelings and that I could wind up not being invited back.

She has shown me the prior problem. Before worrying about speech or belief you've got to worry about where you are, whether you're in a tribe or not, and if you are in a tribe, which one? On this night I, with all my learned skill, had gotten my tribe wrong and seriously underestimated tribal beliefs.

Now I came to that party thinking of the academic tribe, descended from the tribe of Socrates, as the tribeless tribe, or at least as the tribe that aspired to tribelessness, the one tribe that did so. That gave it an advantage in solving problems. Its members started with a more objective view of reality, where the causes of the problem were found. They avoided tribal distortions. Example: When they reported the percentage of blacks being incarcerated they included the percentages that give it meaning: the percentage of blacks in the population and the percentage of blacks committing crimes. Failure to do this distorted the picture, and revealed tribal interest.

Members of the academic tribe did not, in my mind, engage in war, cultural or physical, but messages from them could be very helpful to warring tribes in solving their problems. At the table I tried to deliver what I thought would be a helpful message because I wanted to live the good life. A good life to me was a life engagé.

Does the fact that the engagement failed here mean that such engagements will inevitably fail? No. The delivery was botched. Though I had taken account of who the audience was, and where they were, I had failed to take into account the times in which they and I were living, the when. This was the postmodern era. My tribeless tribe was being called "the tribe that kids themselves." Appeals to "reality" and "objectivity" were being denied. The message I was delivering had, in itself, insufficient weight to counter the weights — mainly the hurt to feelings — already against it.

So there's a problem prior to the prior problem. And I don't see a good solution, or at least one I am capable of. Yes, the objective message that hurts feelings may be just what warring tribes need, and yes, Socrates, the unexamined life is "not worth living," and yes, Max Beerbohm, the examined life "is no bowl of cherries either," but I'm a frail human being, and I'm not up to knowing everything I need to know about an era that will affect my message.

What I don't know is whether or not I am an exception, whether there are other human beings who can solve this problem. Until I know that I am not justified in concluding that meeting the requirements to be like Socrates, and be called a philosopher, is not humanly possible.



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